I am a 21 year old stay at home mother of 1. I am about to bring my totally dependant father home from the hospital. I have medical bills, and medical supplies that I need and can't afford. I have to remodel my home to fit a wheelchair and I have to feed him through a tube. I need help! I am afraid I will not be able to afford to take care of him long. I do not want nor can afford to put him in a nursing home. Please help!